Understanding Palliative Care: A Simple Guide for Families

Welcome to our guide on understanding palliative care support for families.
Many people hear “palliative care” when doctors diagnose a loved one with a life-limiting illness, but they may not understand what it actually means. This confusion stops families from getting the emotional support they need most.
Our professional team at PalAssist has supported families through palliative care for many years, so we understand how overwhelming these questions can feel.
That’s why we’ve created this guide for you. You’ll learn what palliative care involves, who provides support, when it starts, the difference between palliative and end-of-life care, and how to access services across Australia.
Let’s break down everything you need to know.
What is Palliative Care?
Palliative care is specialised medical support that improves the quality of life for people with serious illnesses like cancer, heart disease, or dementia.

You might be wondering what this means for your family. Palliative care focuses on comfort and quality for anyone with a life-limiting illness. It works alongside curative treatment instead of waiting until treatment stops or a person is dying.
The approach addresses:
- Physical symptoms
- Emotional wellbeing
- Social needs
- Spiritual concerns
In practice, this means your loved one can get help with symptoms like pain while staying on track with their regular medical care.
Bottom Line: Palliative care focuses on making life better right now, whatever stage of illness someone is facing. Whereas end-of-life care is just one part of the broader palliative approach.
Who’s Part of Your Palliative Care Team?
Your palliative care team typically includes doctors, nurses, allied health professionals, and social workers who collaborate to support you. Each person brings different expertise to help with symptoms, emotional needs, and practical challenges.
Learn about the roles of your care team:
Doctors, Nurses, and Health Professionals
GPs coordinate overall care, while specialist palliative doctors manage complex symptoms and treatment plans. Palliative care nurses provide hands-on support, monitor symptoms, and teach families practical care techniques.
For example, nurses show carers how to position someone comfortably or spot signs that pain relief needs adjusting. While your existing specialists continue their treatment, the palliative care team adds another layer of support that focuses entirely on your comfort.
Allied Health and Social Support Workers
What about the daily challenges that medication alone can’t fix? Well, allied health professionals and social workers help you maintain independence and dignity through practical support that makes daily life easier.
Here’s what this team offers:
- Movement and Nutrition: Your physiotherapists, occupational therapists and dietitians are the specialists who keep daily activities manageable. Whenever you need help with mobility, home modifications, or maintaining healthy eating, they step in.
- Practical Resources: Many social workers specialise in the non-medical hurdles families face, like finances, housing, equipment needs, and accessing community resources. If you’re overwhelmed by paperwork or funding applications, never hesitate to ask for their guidance.
This range of services means you’re not figuring everything out alone.
How Families Fit Into the Care Team
Families are active members of the care team, not just visitors or bystanders during treatment. They know the patient best.
That’s why families are central to care planning, with their input guiding treatment goals and daily support approaches. On top of that, the team trains carers on symptom management, medication administration, and recognising when to seek medical help.
We’ve seen how proper carer training reduces emergency hospital visits and helps families feel more confident managing symptoms at home. This way, everyone involved gets the respect and support they need.
When Should Palliative Care Start?
Start as soon as possible after a life-limiting illness diagnosis. Early access gives you the best chance for symptom control and quality time.
To be honest, many families wait too long, thinking palliative care only happens in the final months of life. The reality is different, though.
Palliative care can begin at the diagnosis of any serious illness, not just months before death. Starting early means better symptom control, clearer communication and more time to talk through wishes and plan ahead thoughtfully.
Even some people access palliative care support for years alongside treatments, with care intensity adjusted as needs change. This benefit of early support helps families feel less overwhelmed during the palliative care journey.
So what’s the difference between palliative care and end-of-life care?
Understanding the Difference: Palliative Care vs End-of-Life Care
We hear this common question all the time from families. Many wonder if palliative care and end-of-life care mean the same thing (and yes, this confusion is very common).

Palliative care is the broader approach to managing symptoms and support throughout a life-limiting illness. It can start at diagnosis and continue for months or even years. End-of-life care, however, is the specific phase when someone is likely weeks or days away from dying.
Both support quality of life, but they happen at different stages of the illness journey.
Something to Remember: Death and dying conversations become more direct during end-of-life care.
What Does Palliative Care Support Include?
Palliative care support includes symptom management, emotional counselling, practical assistance and spiritual care designed for your individual needs. Here, both medical and non-medical support work together to help you and your family.
Now let’s see what this support looks like in practice:
Physical Symptom Management and Medical Care
Medical teams focus on controlling uncomfortable symptoms so you can spend energy on time with loved ones, enjoying meals, or simply resting comfortably. Pain relief comes through medications, therapies, and techniques matched to your specific condition and comfort needs.
Beyond pain, teams work on managing breathlessness, nausea, fatigue, appetite loss, and other symptoms that affect daily quality of life.
Plus, care happens wherever you are (your home, hospital, aged care facility, or hospice) with teams providing equipment and support. This approach aims to give you relief while maintaining the best possible quality throughout treatment.
Emotional, Social, and Practical Support Options
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the emotional and practical challenges of serious illness, you’re not the only one. In fact, research shows that around 30% of people with chronic illness experience depression or anxiety related to their physical health.
That’s when having a strong emotional support network becomes vital for both patients and families:
- Counselling Services: Counselling for patients and families works through grief, fear, anger, and the emotional weight of serious illness. These sessions give you space to process feelings honestly.
- Practical Assistance: When you need help with paperwork and planning, practical support covers advance care planning, legal paperwork, financial concerns, and connecting to community services.
- Future Planning: Even during difficult times, social workers can arrange grief support referrals and help document future medical treatment decisions. You don’t have to face those conversations alone.
- Spiritual Support: Spiritual care respects your beliefs, whether religious, cultural, or personal values important to you. For example, chaplains might visit regularly, or spiritual care workers can connect you with faith communities.
When you get this emotional support in place early, you’re better prepared for the practical question families ask next: how do I actually connect with these services?
How to Access Palliative Care Services in Australia
You can access palliative care through your GP, specialists, hospitals, or by contacting services directly in your state (surprisingly straightforward once you know where to look).
Your GP can refer you directly to local palliative care services, or you can self-refer in some areas without needing a doctor’s approval first. Contact My Aged Care, your state health department, or search the National Palliative Care Service Directory online for a full range of providers near you.
If you’re still unsure where to start, our team connects families with palliative care resources and guidance. We’re available online through chat services and by phone 7 days a week (7 am-7 pm).
Call us on 1800 725 277 for free support from registered nurses.
Why Advance Care Planning Helps Your Family
Your family benefits when you document treatment preferences early, reducing stress and confusion during medical emergencies.
Advance care planning records your treatment preferences, values, and who should make decisions if you can’t communicate. This planning is important because health crises happen unexpectedly, and families shouldn’t have to guess what you’d want.
Our registered nurses have guided thousands of families through advanced care planning conversations over the years. We’ve seen how having these conversations early reduces family stress and ensures medical teams respect the person’s wishes during crisis moments.
Finding the Right Palliative Care Support for Your Family
Understanding palliative care helps you make informed choices when your family faces a life-limiting illness. The aim is to improve the quality of life for both patients and loved ones during difficult times.
Palliative care support doesn’t replace your current medical treatment. Instead, it adds another layer focused on comfort, symptom relief, and emotional well-being throughout the illness journey.
Your family and friends don’t have to go through this alone. PalAssist provides free palliative care guidance through registered nurses who understand what families experience. We’re here to answer questions and connect you with the right support for your situation.
Disclaimer
This blog provides general health and product information for educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace advice from your healthcare professional. Always seek guidance from your GP, nurse, continence advisor, or pharmacist regarding your individual needs. If symptoms persist or you’re unsure about product use, consult a qualified healthcare provider.



